上上一代对上一代，上一代和这一代

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无意间点了福建卤花肉，里面吃出阿妈以前煮的味道。其实，上一代的他们经历了很多苦，很不容易，大部分也没有活到很好，所以教育下一代，照顾家人的部分，也有很多的创伤，哭和痛， 微微的去感受，还是可以感受到他们对我的爱，上上一代对上一代，上一代和这一代，除了传承了创伤，悲伤，苦，还传承了无法表达的爱。深深的去感受他们不懂如何表达的爱....

祝福与感恩
谢谢你们，感觉到你们的爱。



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